Reaching orgasm with twice the intensity: that's the promise of double stimulation. To achieve this kind of pleasure, known as mixed orgasm, certain sex toys are particularly well-suited. We tell you more. 

Double stimulation: what does it mean?

A "blended orgasm" occurs when two erogenous zones are stimulated simultaneously or slightly alternately. This is the case, for example, when during intercourse or masturbation, there is vaginal penetration and stimulation of the external part of the clitoris. But we can also speak of a mixed orgasm with anal penetration or stimulation of the breast, or any other erogenous zone, depending on each person's preferences and sensations. 

Here again, be careful not to focus on achieving an orgasm, which is neither an end in itself nor a sign of "normality" (a word that really has no place in terms of sexuality). But whatever the goal, double stimulation will bring you a lot of pleasure, and that's all that matters! 

 

Vaginal or clitoral orgasm: the end of a myth? 

And while we're on the subject of orgasm, here's another opportunity to dismantle a long-standing myth (thanks, Freud): the difference between vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm, with the underlying idea that the former is more legitimate, more 'adult' than the latter. Who do you think you are, Sigmund? Secondly, it's now been proven that all orgasms are in fact clitoral: we simply differentiate between internal and external stimulation of our precious clitoris. 

"The clitoris, with its 8,000 nerve endings, is the only organ in the human anatomy entirely dedicated to sexual pleasure. It measures an average of 10 to 11 centimetres, and has an external/visible part and an internal/invisible part. The external part lies between the labia majora vaginalis, at the top of the labia minora vaginalis and above the urinary orifice. The internal/invisible part is divided into two parts on either side of the vaginal entrance", reads the quiz on female pleasure prepared by the Fédération des Centres de Planning Familiale des FPS (Femmes Prévoyantes Socialistes). 

" While there are many erogenous zones, there is only one for enjoyment: that zone is the clitoris. All orgasms are extensions of sensation from this zone "writes Anne Koedt, in "Le mythe de l'orgasme vaginal", Nouvelles Questions Féministes. That's said once and for all.

That said, the most common form of double stimulation for women is simultaneous stimulation of the inner and outer clitoris.

The benefits of mixed orgasm or double stimulation 

Before experimenting with double stimulation with a partner, it's always a good idea to try it solo. It's the best way to get to know your body and its erogenous zones, without pressure, and then better guide your partner.

• It's a masturbation technique that guarantees a wave of pleasure of rare intensity that sweeps through your entire body: nothing less! 
• If you're one of those people who aren't very sensitive to penetration, combining external clitoral stimulation with internal stimulation can help you create pleasure associations, so that you can get off more easily with internal stimulation alone. Sarah's testimonial can help you find the right method.
• And as an added bonus, it can be performed with your own hands or with sex toys specially designed for double stimulation.

 

What sex toys are needed for successful double stimulation? 

The sex toy industry is always one step ahead when it comes to serving up intense pleasure on a platter. Well, at Blush we've got several products that should take you to 7th heaven via double stimulation. 

If you like to go back and forth, but don't want the external stimulation to come off your clitoris, we suggest you combine! Either you have someone with a penis on hand for the internal part (it's practical, cheap and moves by itself ;)) with a toy for the external part, or you combine 2 compact vibrators that allow you to have both intense penetration with the exact movements you want and external clitoral stimulation with a pulsator or vibrating pebble as you wish (mind you, here we're using both hands):

• For interns :
• TheArc de Dame is ideal for back-and-forth movements and the search for orgasmic points in the vagina (G-spots or deepspots, for example)..

• External :
• Ona, our first clitoral stimulator, if you like aspi clito / pulsation / suction, it doesn't matter what you call it as long as you get the pleasure!

• Non-vibrating rollers for those who love the sensation of clitoral friction, a unique product with multiple applications.

 

Nina Ristori 

 

Sources : 

• https://www.planningsfps.be/temp-quizz/ 

• KOEDT Anne, " The myth of vaginal orgasm ", Nouvelles Questions Féministes2010/3 (Vol. 29), pp. 14-22. DOI : 10.3917/nqf.293.0014.